Udinese defeat Inter after frantic finale
Chilean winger Mauricio Isla scored the only goal from a lightning counter-attack in the 73rd minute to give Udinese 27 points from 13 matches, the same as Milan who have a better goal difference.
In a pulsating finale Javier Zanetti (Inter) and Damiano Ferronetti (Udinese) were dismissed while Antonio Di Natale and Giampaolo Pazzini missed penalties for each side.
"It's not that common for Udinese to win at the San Siro," visiting coach Francesco Guidolin told Sky Sports.
"We are adding up the points and to be top is marvellous. We must live in the present though."
Inter remained sixth from bottom after suffering their sixth league defeat of the season.
"We have to be quiet now and work hard," said coach Claudio Ranieri. "If we are far off the title, there are still other prizes to be had this season.
"Without crying we have to fight and see where we are by the end of the year. This should have been the game to turn things around."
A double from Uruguayan striker Edinson Cavani and one each by Ezequiel Lavezzi and Blerim Dzemaili helped Napoli climb to fifth with a 4-2 win over bottom club Lecce.
Looking for a hat-trick of league wins, Ranieri opted to unite Diego Milito and Pazzini up front.
It was Udinese who dominated the early stages though with Romanian midfielder Gabriel Torje warming Julio Cesar's hands after 12 minutes with a powerful shot from distance.
In contrast to the visitors, Inter's approach play was laboured but from a flowing move in the 16th minute Milito lifted the ball over the bar after finding space on the edge of the box.
The Argentine striker cracked a powerful free-kick just over 13 minutes later and Thiago Motta then swapped passes with Milito to create the best chance of the first half but the midfielder's shot was too close to keeper Samir Handanovic.
TURN AND SHOT
Udinese striker Di Natale had few scraps to feed off but he almost caught out Julio Cesar with an instinctive turn and shot just before the hour that the Brazilian keeper could only hold at the second attempt.
The away side continued to press and they deservedly broke the deadlock when Isla finished off a brilliant break involving Di Natale and Floro Flores with a firm right-foot strike into the corner.
Inter skipper Zanetti received his marching orders with four minutes to go after collecting a second booking for bringing down Kwadwo Asamoah but Di Natale's penalty was turned aside by Julio Cesar.
The home side were presented with the perfect opportunity to grab a point with a minute to go when defender Ferronetti was adjudged to have brought down Milito and Pazzini slipped as he struck the spot-kick and ballooned the ball over.
At the San Paolo stadium, Napoli broke Lecce's resistance with three goals in a 15-minute spell before half-time.
Argentine forward Lavezzi opened the scoring in the 26th minute and Cavani doubled the advantage seven minutes later, finishing coolly after being sent clean through by Goran Pandev.
Swiss midfielder Dzemaili cracked the third four minutes before the interval with a powerful shot from outside the box.
Colombian striker Luis Muriel pulled a goal back for visiting Lecce after 54 minutes before Cavani grabbed his second of the game late on to take his season's tally in the league to seven goals.
Daniele Corvia made it 4-2 deep into stoppage-time but could not stop Lecce slumping to their ninth league defeat of the season.