Matt Taylor insists he has not looked back on the “brutal” memories of Exeter’s recent play-off final failures as he focuses on creating his own history at Wembley.
Grecians boss Taylor is preparing to face Northampton on Monday evening after guiding the club to their third Sky Bet League Two play-off final in four seasons.
He was part of Paul Tisdale’s coaching staff when Exeter suffered disappointing defeats to Blackpool in 2017 and Coventry in 2018.
The 38-year-old, who succeeded Tisdale following the loss to the Sky Blues, is determined to be positive and concentrate on the present, rather than attempt to learn from the past.
“We’ve not looked into it too much, to be honest with you,” Taylor said of the play-off final defeats.
“My memory has not gone back to those two occasions where I was involved as a coach because they were negative times in terms of the results we got.
“It’s part and parcel of it that you win and lose in football but those finals certainly hurt us in terms of the way we performed on the day.
“We’ve got to be positive about the outcome. We’ve got to look forward, we’ve got to feel confident.
“We’re not looking at what’s been in the past, we’re certainly looking forward and we want to make our own history.
“You only really enjoy Wembley if you are successful and no-one really remembers the team who gets beaten. It’s a brutal place to go and lose.”
Exeter are bidding to end an eight-year exile from the third tier.
𝗖𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘀 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗻'𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 '𝗔𝗻 𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲'…— Exeter City FC (@OfficialECFC) June 26, 2020
After twice enduring recent heartbreak at the national stadium, Grecians fans will be unable to attend the behind-closed-doors match because of coronavirus restrictions.
Their presence will be replaced by an army of cardboard cutouts, including celebrity fans such as Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin and actor and comedian Adrian Edmondson.
The Devon club booked their place in the final after Ryan Bowman grabbed an extra-time winner in a gruelling semi-final success over Colchester.
Forward Bowman, who joined the club last summer, wants to make the most of his maiden Wembley appearance but admits the occasion will be tinged with disappointment because of the lack of atmosphere.
“As a professional footballer, you want to play at places like Wembley. Having played 10 years professionally to not get there yet, I can’t wait for it,” said the 28-year-old, who has scored 15 times this season.
“It’s a little boy’s dream to win things like this, win promotion. I’ve never tasted promotion before.
“It is a shame your family and friends are not going to be there watching but you know they’re going to be supporting you from home, likewise the fans will be, so you’ve got to put a performance on.
“It does take away (from the experience) a little bit but playing at Wembley in itself is a massive thing and hopefully it can be a successful one.”
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