Late Barry header helps Man City sink Reading
Roberto Mancini's side, who snatched the title in the dying seconds of last season, again displayed the knack of scoring late as Barry's controversial effort broke Reading's resistance and moved City to within three points of United.
City have 39 points from 18 games, followed by four clubs on 30 points after a rainswept opening to the busy holiday programme yielded just 14 goals.
A second-half penalty by Mikel Arteta earned Arsenal a 1-0 victory at Wigan Athletic as the Gunners moved up to third place, while North London rivals Tottenham Hotspur fell out of the top four after a 0-0 home draw with Stoke City.
Everton climbed to fourth, making light of Marouane Fellaini's absence through suspension to win 2-1 at West Ham United in a game in which both sides ended with 10 men.
West Bromwich Albion also reached the 30-point mark after ending Norwich City's 10-match unbeaten league run with Romelu Lukaku sealing a 2-1 victory 10 minutes from time after Norwich had taken the lead at the Hawthorns.
Liverpool were the day's biggest winners, crushing a woeful Fulham side 4-0 at Anfield in the evening kick-off. Martin Skrtel, Steven Gerrard, Stewart Downing and Luis Suarez hoisted Brendan Rodgers's side up to eighth with 25 points.
There was no pre-Christmas cheer for the bottom four, with Reading, Wigan, Queens Park Rangers and Southampton all losing.
QPR's revival under new manager Harry Redknapp came to a halt with a 1-0 defeat at Newcastle United while Sunderland edged clear of the bottom three after a 1-0 win at Southampton.
City, whose 37-match home unbeaten run in the league was ended by United this month, were expected to breeze past a Reading side whose defence went missing in a Monday night thrashing by Arsenal, but the visitors had not read the script.
Reading were heading for a well-deserved point after restricting City to a handful of chances and even had a reasonable penalty shout waved away but they cracked three minutes into injury time.
David Silva crossed into the area as City launched one final assault, and Barry, who appeared to have his hand on Reading defender Nicky Shorey, climbed to thump a header into the corner to the relief of the home fans and manager Mancini.
"I hoped, always. It was difficult. We had lots of possession but if you don't score early it is very difficult," Mancini told Sky Sports.
"You have to be patient but if we had scored one goal in the first half it would have changed the game. You need to score quickly in these games and sometimes you take a risk to score. I think we deserved to win.
"Our fans know we try until the last seconds always."
Luckless Reading manager Brian McDermott, whose side will be bottom at Christmas, was angry the goal was allowed to stand.